Monday, February 2, 2009

The first 30 days




Things I've learned in the first 30 days of having a baby:

1. Poop stains clothing.

2. The ruffles on the diapers must be facing out to prevent leakage. See #1.

3. The weight on the diaper box is not how much poop a diaper can hold.

4. If Mitch is fussy his diaper is probably dirty. If the diaper isn't dirty he's probably hungry. If he's still fussy but he refuses to eat it's because he's dirtied his diaper since you checked it 5 minutes ago. If the diaper is still not dirty and he is still fussy it's because he's hungry now.

5. It's always time to burp Mitch.

6. A good burp from Mitch makes me feel happy too.

7. The pacifier, don't leave home without it.

8. The rumble that accompanies a bowel movement is like a sneeze, usually traveling in pairs. If you open the diaper after the first one you will also be changing the changing table's cover and possibly your clothes.

9. When changing a diaper on a boy they should always be considered armed and dangerous, ready to go off at any second.

10. The car seat is like Valium.

11. Even though he doesn't do much besides eat, sleep, poop and cry I am constantly in awe of him.

Enjoy some of the pictures from the first 30 days.


Mitch likes to chillax




















Daddy channeling Dr. Spock to figure out how to sooth Mitchell.



















Bath time with Mommy.
















We have introduced the bottle and it seems to be going quite well.















Monday, January 19, 2009

Grandparents Visit Part I

Dad (Grandpa Skip) and Grandma Nita arrived yesterday to meet Mitchell. Mitchell was so excited to meet them that by the time they arrived he was exhausted and couldn't keep his eyes open. Nita demonstrated her professional level maternal moves by immediatlely holding him, rocking him, and comforting him. We were all impressed when she spun him around while balanced on one finger like a Harlem Globe Trotter basketball. Mitch loved it. Unlike Nita with 6 kids and 13 grandchildren of her own, this is grandpa Skips first grandchild. He wouldn't hold Mitchell for at least 20 minutes and even then he insisted he sit down. I keep catching him staring at Mitchell shaking his head in loving disbelief. Mitchell has awoken several times to give a little smile usually preceeded by a burp, fart, and/or poop. Above is a video of Mitchell meeting his grandparents.

Thursday, January 8, 2009

Big Day






Today was a big day for the King family. As you can see we took our first family photo! Other big news...Mitchell got his first bath. He seemed to enjoy it, and Niki's milk came in so of course now Mitchell is poopin' like a machine. I can't believe how excited I've been about poop? I guess it's official...I used to be a dude, now i'm a dad.





























Wednesday, January 7, 2009

Blue Eyes


Good morning. Mitchell wanted to say "Hello" to everyone.


All three Kings packed up and went home yesterday. It is such a nice feeling to not have a nurse, or a technician, or some other random person walk in every 15-20 minutes.


Our first night was just about magical. We're officially a family. Niki and I our beyond ourselves with excitement and a healthy dose of fear.


Mitchell is a little gentleman, he's feeding about every 1.5 -2 hours and unless he's poopin', he's sleeping. We swear every time we look at him something about his appearance changes.


Of course when I say he's feeding every 2 hours that means Niki is feeding him. I've said it before and I'll say it again...Niki is a natural mom. She has fantastic instincts! Other than being a little sleep deprived she is doing well. It's amazing, the swelling in her face is completely gone and everyday she's getting around a little easier.




Monday, January 5, 2009

Mitchell Devon King



Mitchell has arrived!!! He was born at 1208 am on January 4 2008, weighed 7 lbs - 13 oz., and is 20.5 inches long. He and Niki are doing well.

The excitement started when Niki called me at 6:15 am to tell me she thought her water had broken. I was at work finishing a night shift. By 7:30 am we were on our way to the hospital. When we arrived an ultrasound confirmed that her water had indeed broken and we were officially in labor.

Despite being placed on Pitocin ( a hormone that speeds up the laboring process ) Niki did not progress as quickly as we would have liked. By 7pm she was 8 cm dilated and fully effaced...still not good enough to start pushing. Finally, by 9 pm her cervix was completely dilated and she started pushing. Niki is a natural mom. She pushed like a champ!

And then it got scary for a little while. Niki developed a fever and Mitchell's heart rate went up to a fairly concerning level which means that over the coure of her very long labor Niki's amniotic sac got infected and required some IV antibiotics.

At 1200 am Mitchell showed his head which was so exciting and bitter sweat because his head was covered in meconium (meconium is the babies first bowel movement, which is dangerous if it is in his mouth when he takes his first breath.) At 1208 he was delivered! He was suctioned as well as possible before he took his first breath but once he started breathing it looked like he may have gotten some of the meconium in his lungs because he had moderate - severe respiratory distress that required him to go to the ICU. Luckily, he responded to treatment very well and was discharged from the ICU to our room in the mother baby unit by 4am.

With the fever and the respiratory distress we needed Niki and Mitchell to stay in the hospital for 48 hours of antibiotics and observation to make sure neither of them developed any infections. As of today they are both without fever and doing fantastic. In fact, Mitchell passed his hearing exam today. We are schedule to leave the hospital and go home tomorrow!

I wanted to thank everyone for their phone calls of support and concern. I apologize for not getting back to you as quickly as I would have liked. In the midst of it all I could only focus on Niki and Mitchell. We love you all.

Niki's addendum: I'm looking for a semi-truck that hit me night before last, any one seen it? I didn't get the plate number but it was in the vacinity of University Hospital Labor and Delivery department.

Rich's account of Mitchell's deliver is short only in one detail and that is of how Niki was so delirious from exhaustion during the pushing phase of delivery that she completely relied on Rich to remind her of what needed to be done. This is what it was like: Niki says, "A contraction is coming." She looks helplessly at Rich as if to say, "What am I suppose to be doing now?" Rich looks at her and says, "Take a deep breath and push for 10...1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9,10. Again. 1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9,10. Again. 1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9,10," followed by "good job, now relax." One minute later the cycle repeats with the same helpless look and the same supportive directions. Repeat times 50 until Mitchell finally appears. Rich is an awesome daddy!

Rich and I are getting to know Mitchell one quirk at a time and we can't wait to introduce him to you all. So far we know he likes to cuddle, he can do an imitation of Popeye with the one eye open and the other tightly squinted shut, and he burps like a champ(Grandma Jane helped us figure out that one). He also appears to be a precocious chap as he is already attempting to lift his head on his own, no easy task to accomplish with such a big melon. Yes I said it, my child has a big head...I would know.

Again thank you all and much love.

Saturday, December 6, 2008

T-minus 4 weeks and counting.
Niki and I just completed our birthing class today. We learned about breathing exercises, relaxation techniques, breast feeding, and baby care. It was a long day but I think it helped alleviate some of the anxiety we have both been feeling about the "great unknown."

Friday, November 28, 2008



Hello everyone,

Niki and I are both very greatful to have such a fantastic group of family and friends. With the anticipated arrival of Mitchell coming very soon Niki and I have created this blog for you, so you can be right here with us. We will do our best to keep the "King Family Update" as current as possible leading up to and after his arrival.